According to a research conducted by
the National Union of Students (NUS) in the UK, “the majority of students view
porn to find out about sex”. The survey, published on January, 2015 spoke to
more than 2,500 school and university students in the UK and found 60% of
respondents watch porn to get information about sex despite almost 75%
saying that it creates unrealistic expectations. Friends, school, and sexual
partners were listed as the top three sources relied upon for information.
According to those surveyed, the topics covered in class were more biology
based – with puberty, contraception, sexual health, and bodies and anatomy
listed as the most commonly taught.
Another survey by Pamela Paul,
author of “Pornified”, researched casual users of pornography, 80% of
which were male. Paul found that pornography dictates most men’s thoughts about
sex. Men who use pornography often have trouble achieving orgasm with their
partner unless they are actively thinking about pornography. The pornography
user is rendered impotent without pornography. A porn watcher cannot be
intimate with his partner unless he actively thinks about (or watches) porn.
That means they are not alone in the bedroom. He is really not present for his
partner. He has introduced others into the process. Viewed pornography does
more to shape values and beliefs about what sexual experience should be than
anything other than sexual experience itself. The problem is that the
curriculum presented by pornographers is not reality. Becoming “pornified” can
diminish or extinguish the ability to engage in an intimate relationship.
Brendan Gough and Gareth Edwards in
their academic research paper “The Beer Talking: four lads and a carry out of
reproduction of masculinities” talk about “pornography” as an effective tool to
establish hegemonic masculinity and promote the subordination of the “other”-
feminine, effeminate males, and others, thus reproducing hegemonic masculinity.
They discuss that pornography is a shared experience among men and is an
“imagined” concept in their sexual practices.
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